Welcome to FunWithBenefits
We’re so glad you found us.
FunWithBenefits is an adult alternative lifestyle community built around fun, connection, curiosity, and a healthy dose of adventure. We create recreational and educational experiences where adults can explore connection, kink, creativity, learning, and community in a culture grounded in consent, dignity, accountability, and belonging. Consent, respect, and personal boundaries aren't suggestions here—they're the foundation of everything we do.
Whether you’re experienced in the lifestyle, brand new, simply curious, or just here for the good company, you’re welcome. There’s no expectation to play, participate, or identify a certain way. Come as you are, know your boundaries, respect everyone else’s, and have a damn good time.
Why We're Here
My husband and I were incredibly lucky when we first entered the lifestyle. We were welcomed by a generous community of swingers and kinksters, and meeting people happened naturally. That experience stuck with me, and FunWithBenefits is my way of paying it forward.
After a few twists, turns, and one particularly motivating bad experience with another group, I decided to build something of my own. What started as hosting parties for friends quickly grew into a business, a brand, and an excuse to throw increasingly ridiculous events.
Apparently, “go big or go home” is a lifestyle all by itself.
Who We Are
Today, FunWithBenefits is a growing community of adults throughout the Pacific Northwest who want genuine friendships, memorable experiences, education, and a safe place to explore the alternative lifestyle
What's Next?
We’re still growing, so you’ll see us evolve as we refine our events, policies, and procedures. If something is confusing, awkward, or just doesn’t work, tell us. We’d rather hear about it and make it better.
Expect meet & greets, BYOB mixers, themed events, classes and workshops, river floats, camping retreats, nude beach trips, and maybe even a hotel takeover or spicy group vacation down the road.
And yes, we've been to Hedonism II. It was amazing. A FunWithBenefits group trip might just have to happen someday.
